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Sample Client questions and answers

●●You answered this question on 03/18/14
Rating:
Knowledgeability Clarity of Response Politeness Nomination?
5 7 8 No
Comment: Your information may help but not specific enough. You said I am interested in reading, table pool ping pong and climbing but only reading is actually right and I am not interested in sport you mention. Other than reading, I like viewing traditional Chinese art and listening to traditional Chinese music. The only sport which I might have interested in is Chinese martial art (but might not be anymore).
Questioner: P
Category: Psychics
Private: No View Published Answer
Subject: why do most girls avoid me?
Question: I typed my first name above. My date of birth is October 13, 1987. I am male. I am from china and now I am living in the US. I want to know why most girls avoid me since I became a youth. I have never have chance to have a girlfriend. I can only have one female friend (sometime two) once a year (sometime every half year) they all went away at the end of every year. Their names are Hannah (American born Japanese girl) Ashley (American born Japanese girl)hanxu (Chinese girl) yuzhu (Chinese girl) su (Korean girl)elisia (American born Chinese girl)Susana (American born Chinese girl), and too many to list. This year I met jade(probably an American born Japanese girl) and lingqi (Chinese girl) I don’t know what will happen. Is this my problem or did I met the wrong people? What was gone wrong?
Answer: P
I hear the pain and the shame and doubt in your question. I am sorry you have this to go through, but it is natural for what some call “a late bloomer.” You are just starting late with a false idea about yourself. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just underdeveloped about yourself and the ways of the world. You want to be attractive to women, perhaps only women of Asian descent, but you have not yet changed from a boy into a man.
Please hear me when I say that. It’s not about your maturity, or even your likes and dislikes-for example, computer games versus toy cars. It is not even about money or possessions. It is about the way you carry yourself and your confidence.
The girls you listed all had their preferences and know something of Asian male ego and cultural influences. The average depiction of an Asian male is slim, dark of eye and hair, cool and capable. He has a Western attitude–maybe not so respectable, maybe a nerd, but yet attractive because he knows he has the “it” factor. Do you?
No, I think not yet. Not yet. Not yet. You will. You can get it. For a great part of your life you have been shy and introspective. You have been like a babe in the womb, unborn to the ways of the world, and walking through it as your natural self, without false projections or attitude. You are yourself without the charming outreach of Jackie Chan or the fierce muscularity of Bruce Lee. You are like a college professor interested in teaching but unable to see beyond books.
But you do have interests reading, table pool I think, ping pong maybe and climbing or seeing things from great heights. So, you need to improve on your probabilities for a girl who will love you for how you are. Join clubs where activities between men and women around their interests can add to your chances to strike up a warm friendship. Be where the action involves separate participation between men and women but allows some flirting and self-preening. Use your hobbies and interests to connect to their interests.
Come out of you cave. You have been an introvert too long. Start to read male fashion magazines and add to your presentation by dress, learn what the young 20 something are doing. Get more information about current events. In other words, create a new energy field around yourself. Your way of approaching things has been too self-conscious, too inward. Come out of yourself; come into being interested in the millennial woman–she is hip, likes pretty and unusual clothes and things, cameras, social media, and she likes to go to concerts, eat smart and know where the happenings are. Can you work on this angle to raise your attraction to these kind of women? Does it seem doable?
If not, you must seek a match maker. There are still good ones in Asia, and you can find your twin, a girl who like you is also a late bloomer and knows little of the ways of the world in terms of being a part of the hip culture. Seek a quiet but brilliant mate who is shy but wants love like you. But do trust that you have something to offer and all of us have heart breaks and break-ups and chances to start over every day. You have learned from all this rejection and lost opportunity–what you have learned is “I must do something.” If your breath is good; you have a nice face, and your body is in good health, then you have the physical stuff to attract.
I hope this helps you, P. Please leave me an evaluation.
P.S. The energy you put into increasing your attractiveness in any area, will heal the sense of rejection and self-doubt you have lived with. You are loveable, Show it in smile and song.

 

 

●You answered this question on 04/03/14
Rating:
Knowledgeability Clarity of Response Politeness Nomination?
10 10 10 Yes
Comment: I totally believe in the advice given to me. Why didn’t I think of that myself! Thank you so very much. X
Questioner: K
Category: Psychics
Private: No View Published Answer
Subject: moving forward
Question: Dear Oracle Shariananda,
I left my husband 18 months ago due to his anger issues over a period of 5 years while we were together. I built up walls to protect myself and tried to be strong by finally leaving. I was homeless for the first 6 months but finally sort refuge in a shelter for women. I attend meditation classes, groups, counseling and read. I also successfully finished a nursing course last month and moved into my own place but I am finding it hard to feel good about myself so I can move on and feel confident. I feel stuck. It is affecting my health with recently being diagnosed with IBS. So I’m stuck mentally and physically. Can you please advise me.
Answer: Dear K,
I greet you now with good news: you are made well in the name of the God I serve.
He (She/It) wants nothing but your health, wholeness, freedom, and joy. In the name of his Son ,I send the Love of God on wings now.” THAT IS GIVEN. SNZ K, you are so far out in front of yourself with your dreams of stability and empowerment.
Girlfriend, how many battered or abused or misused woman can say what you have just said? You are a victor of the highest kind. It is extraordinary that you have been able to come through so much in little under two years and now have your life to yourself. You have done so well–possibly as an overachiever–that you have not slowed down to assess where you have been and where you go from here.
You have been helped and protected, although you probably feel like it was uphill all the way. You are not alone now. If you found me, then you are being strongly directed because I am a beacon like a lighthouse by the shore. God only sends me those who are ready to hear. READY?

Take it easy. When the Lord gets ready for your next step, it will be so apparent. It’s as though you just ran a hundred yard dash in .00 seconds and you are now breathless, tired, exhausted and needing rest, but you want to line up at the next Start for the next race.
No need to push. None at all. You need to continue with your meditations. You need to take your medicine for IBS(what is that?) and you need to rest. Even Jesus rested after every encounter with the massive crowds that followed him.

People have already told you this. So, I will tell you that what you are calling “being stuck mentally and physically” is just down time to catch up with yourself. The entire movement from him to your new home has been rapid transformation, like coming out of a comma of 20 years and still thinking it is yesterday. You just need to be good to you. When your natural rhythms return, you’ll be using that nursing training and your experience through this period to help others. I warn you now–do not believe in ill health. Believe in wholeness and recovery. That is where you are.
Just in case you think I am talking outside of your experience, know that I was struck by lightning in 2006 and my life took a nose dive. I had to come back from the injuries and all the ugly and resentful things I thought about those who did not–to my way of seeing things–come to my aid. I had to learn to trust God, the days of healing, and to find the off button to my mind that kept telling me tired and resentful things. That is the nature of healing and you are out in front of the process. Trust that. Trust your process. This is my advice. The next step will come of its own accord when your mind, body, and spirit are really ready.
●You answered this question on 04/09/14
Rating:
Knowledgeability Clarity of Response Politeness Nomination?
10 10 10 Yes
Comment: Thank you.. It may be time to ask….I believe I’m ready. Again thank you for showing me this.
Questioner: B
Category: Psychics
Private: No View Published Answer
Subject: No Talking – Month
Question: Hello,
So about a month ago my girlfriend stopped answering me and communicating with me (It’s a long distance relationship due to my dad’s job) and I was just wondering, do you see me talking to her again or at least my life getting a little better?

Thank you,
Answer: Hello B–

I have to be honest with you, you are in a pickle.
You do not have your freedom to make choices about going to her or redirecting your life.
I gather that you are underage or depend upon your father. As long as that is true, your life is not your own. You also have lots of things to work out in your life, maybe work, school, or other obligations of time and effort. You cannot adequately attend to your love’s needs. So, she is not as close as she was once, and she is testing you. If you want her, you will have to make a move. Start by sending flowers and a letter of your intention. But be sure to ask her if she has someone new.

Are you ready to do that?

 

●You answered this question on 03/27/14

Rating:
Knowledgeability Clarity of Response Politeness Nomination?
10 10 10 Yes
Comment: Thank you very much. All the best.
Questioner: A
Category: Psychics
Private: No View Published Answer
Subject: My angels and my spirit guides
Question: Hello
I want to contact my angels and my spirit guides. I’m not good at guided meditation, I meditate better in ”here and now”. Please tell me how to contact my angels and my spirit guides? Please give me a message from them. I’m male, 31 years old. Many blessings.

Answer:

Hello Adrian, Thanks for asking me. I honor your transformation from not knowing into knowing. Welcome. You have taken the next step to your own inner wisdom and empowerment.

You can best contact them directly–since guided meditations do not work effectively–by buying a touchable oracle: The Ascended Masters oracle deck by Doreen Virtue. It will give you a broad idea of the great energies which inform your life and are available for guidance daily–moment to moment.

Also, an investigation into power animals or spirit guides will give you a more here and now sense of things when you do start to see animals over and over again in situations. They teach and they inform, they guide, also.

Your own personal guides may be of several varieties. They will make themselves known in dreams. You may want to just ask for someone to make themselves known when you sleep.

I am allowed to ask your guides for their messages or names, but it is actually your duty and your power. I would rather not. It feels intrusive. If you have deceased relatives, a brother, a grandmother, your father, a favorite aunt, you can be sure they nudge you away from danger or error in times when you change your mind for no particular reason. You can ask them to make their presence felt–like angels do–but open all of your senses. smell, sound, taste (of course, touch and sight). They come as strangers or as express words spoken by others in public places or TV.

I have angels and high spirit guides with me, Archangel Michael and St. Germaine. I also have my grandmother and uncle with me. I have named two of my angels Cory and Monty. So in the place of knowing, you can assign names to those who come to you. It is okay. They just want to be acknowledged and they are not attached to names. They are energies that change and morph over time and in each life.

I am told to tell you to “Lighten up” and To “trust the message of the Fisherman (Jesus)”. Do you understand that?

 

●You answered this question on 03/31/14
Rating:
Knowledgeability Clarity of Response Politeness Nomination?
10 10 10 Yes
Comment: Thank you! This has helped me a lot!
Questioner: J
Category: Psychics
Private: Yes
Subject: Ex–as king of your heart–I don’t think so
Question: I saw my ex yesterday and he’s dating a new girl. The last time I saw he was dating a different girl. We had a pretty bad break up but despite what happened between us, I still care for him. Sometimes I feel like there are signs that we may get back together but it may be all in my head. Like the other day our big boss approached me to congratulate bec. he thought I just got married to my ex. I don’t know why he would think that but he said, he saw my name somewhere and took the last name of my ex. So it’s kinda weird for me. Will we ever get back together? His name is H C born on Dec 17,1978 and my name is J V B born on April 18,1981. Hope you can help me out, I still miss him and hoping we still have a chance. God bless and more power!
Answer: Dear, dear J-
It’s perfectly okay to still love someone after breaking up with them. You are not guilty. You are human. But I wonder if you have thought about what issues there were for you two and if you will encounter them again ? and if so, have you new skills or insight as to how you will deal with them?
You make a couple of big assumptions. One that he has been dating others unsuccessfully and maybe what you had was therefore better or he has been unable to find something he had in you. And you think or wish him to come back. You are fanaticizing about the possibility of a reunion and you are adding projection to it, by thinking there are “signs” that you and he might be turning toward each other again, especially since the boss asked about you two as a married couple. I understand. I have been there. It’s a painful place to be.
It’s hard to want someone and not know if they want you or think about you as you think about them. But you are in your thirties now, and it’s not the same game of “try and fly” as it was when you were a teen. It is not “shop and drop” as in the twenties. In the 30s it’s more “get real and deal with what you feel.” Because time is wasting. In seven years, you’ll be 40, do you want to spend the time hoping for a love that was problematic and which has had its season and taught you what you needed to learn? Or do you want to really think about what you need and what you are dreaming of having with someone?
The “dark night of the soul” is an expression that is meant to talk about the agonies of break-up or grief. It’s when you suffer from heart-break and doubts about what you could have done or should have done or could have done. It’s all that backwards looking to understand what you did wrong or why it was this way or that. But life happens as it does and we are meant to move with the Spirit, to let go when it hurts too much to stay.
I invite you now, based on three cards I pulled for you after prayer, to think about what you want and need from life. What kind of person are you? What are your interests and passions? What is your purpose? These would be the things to ask of yourself during this dark night of the soul that sends you reeling backwards in you r mind and heart. I am told that the devil makes us look back–to the past–so we can’t see what God has for us up ahead. The “Hermit” card was your past–it says you have been looking back too much. It’s time to regroup, ask of yourself those questions above.
The “Fool” (present) card is a lover’s card which usually says “go for it,” take the leap, follow your heart. But in this case, yours was upside down. It means you’ll just fall into the same trap and fail to grow or even learn from your mistakes (and his). You two are growing in different ways at different rates. So, no, I do not think you are due for another round.
However, you have free will and you can pursue him–ask him to come back–if he continues to be your obsession. You are allowed. As I said above, you’re human.
Your final card (future), was the King of cups, it shows a man isolated on a rock in an ocean trying to invite many fish to come to him. He is a king but he has no land, no command, only the hard place of his ideas about love and being close. He is drunk or high on his own fantasy of what he thinks he wants and deserves. This card is also upside down. His world is just that way. He is older but not as mature as you. Acts like a teen, or a 20 something. It was noticeable that you did not tell me what he felt about you and how you two broke up.
You are willing to overlook his failings, thinking his love is sufficient, but his love is immature and selfish, and he can only express himself sexually and in brags. He is simply a shadow of a fully mature man. So, no, I do not see you getting back permanently–maybe as warm friends. You still have a true attraction, but I see you as his spiritual role model. You always were his best adviser, and the feelings you have are unconditional love, but no amount of acceptance should reduce you to betraying yourself. You are due to have better, if you look forward, not back. Think on this a few days. I wish you health and wholeness, peace and insight. Shariananda,oracle

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Aglow Like Wonder and Delight

Aglow Like Wonder and Delight

Today’s Daily Word asks us to shine at the thought of the lives we are living. It asks us to polish our aura and halos with the joy of recognition of our happiness in the moment.
That I do now as I report on this last class day of school (before vacation in July) at Frilandet Museet (museum) in Lyngby .This morning I visited the barns and houses of the way of life of Danish people in the past: the daily farm life. Along with my classmates, we walked about and witnessed the remains of the farmware, and its buildings and tools. The community of people back then had to do some hard labor to live in the thatch shelters, they made the roads and ways with carefully selected boulder stones. They had to innovate bathtubs of wood, beds and bedding, the means to sew on old fashioned spinning wheels and to keep livestock. We actually saw horses, chickens, and lambs. Walking the thickly treed paths, and feeling the essence of the place was envigorating and calming. I respected the work that it ook to live without the transformative technologies we have today. It was a demanding life to work closely with one’s neighbors without phones or telegraph. They had to even establish firehouses with big bins of water to be ready for accidental fires. But what I respected most was their artistry in constructing thatch roofs, and housing that had good proximity for their needs. I simply celebrated this little “tur” as the Danes say by being impressed. I am aglow with the continum of life. And although we had a sudden thunderstorm, my classmates and teacher and I managed to have a share-alike lunch on the grounds with a hundred or so visiting school children,all jabbering and frisking about. Their energy fed this moment in life too. Thank you God for delight and wonder. Here’s your Daily Word:

Aglow
I am aglow with vibrant life.
Thursday, June 26, 2014

To function at optimum health, I nourish myself with nutritious food and drink, plenty of exercise, and time for renewal and rest. Such care and attention feels good in the moment and pays dividends for years to come.

My healthy body knows exactly what to do, and I support it. I voice encouraging and uplifting words to and about myself, rather than criticism or fear. Whether positive or negative, the thoughts and words I tell myself also feed my body. Positive self-talk invigorates and supports my intention to maintain a vibrant, healthy body.

I am physically and spiritually alive and well. I am wonderfully aglow with light, life, and vitality.

I pray that … you may be in good health, just as it is well with your soul.—3 John 1:2

Meditation Saved Me

 

In 1973 I was introduced to Transcendental Meditation in Los Angeles, CA.
This was during the time when self-help and transactional analysis were in vogue. I had only just arrived from the East coast and was definitely open to the experience of finding myself and my place in life. I was 28 and unemployed. I had come to California to be with a person twice my age, but I was optimistic and needy. I did not yet know the few relatives I had in the state, so I had to make new friends and contacts as best I could. Church is always a good place to start. But I had become an enemy of church because of the doctrines against homosexuality and because I was trying to make peace with my own. I was disoriented in California because the culture was less restrictive around social interaction, dress and more permissive. I foudn myself trying and doing things I had not tried or ever knew existed. Oh, nothing too damning, but it included challenges to my Southern Baptist fundamentalist upbringing. I was confused and directionless. Then, one of my new acquaintances introduced me to meditation. I went to a free lecture and I did a session that immediately calmed me down, and introduced me ot myself.
It was hard at first to sit still, to keep my eyes closed, to silence the rushing thoughts and images in my head; I couldn’t do a full twenty minutes. But I kept trying because my heart rate slowed, the nervous sweating and agitation I always had gradually disappeared, and I started to sleep better. That was over 40 years ago. I have continued to practice and I have achieved what they promised:cosmic consciousness. A blend of Self-awareness, thought mastery and Spiritual wholeness–God consciousness if you will. It was the beginning of my discovery of my psychic gifts. Today, I still meditate. Of all the spiritual practices that have served my life, it is still #1. I have even developed my own special methods to teach others and to heal them. The Silence is healing. Here’s your Daily Word:

Meditation
In meditation, I connect with my Source.
Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Meditation is a deep and powerful way of connecting to the Divine, realizing oneness with All That Is, and allowing the deepest desires of my soul to surface.

I begin my meditation by choosing a quiet place and time of day. I sit comfortably for a period of time. I close my eyes, relax my palms on my lap, and breathe naturally.

I may contemplate or repeat a spiritual idea or scripture. Should my attention wander, I gently return it to that idea or refocus my attention on my breath. I am still and silent, as I connect directly with the Source of my being. Concluding with an affirmation or prayer of gratitude, I am ready for the day ahead.
The meditation of my heart shall be understanding.–Psalm 49:3

Good Things Happening–Patient Steps

Good Things Happening–Patient Steps

Well, I have been here almost a year and a half as of July 1. Little by little Vivi and I have paved the path before us and our future. We got our papers of temporary residency and identity in order. We worked with the State Church and the Immigration office to marry and validate that marriage. We waited through processing and meanwhile we sought work. Vivi got a new position, and I did not get the Copenhagen U interview. But we did a psychic fair and that launched workshops and our joint gifts working with people. We were waiting for the further establishment of our presence on the scene and offerings as Light workers. The Word-of-Mouth has begun and Viv remembered and connected me with a firm that rents offices by the hour for therapuetic works. With that in place, I could see people in my own office on a by-appointment basis. No overhead! Easy and in order is how it work s with God and the Holy spirit–when it’s right.

Then we connected with Kobenhaven Business Services and have been attending free workshops to learn the ins and outs of doing business in Copenhagen/Denmark. We have drawn up a business plan and we are considered part of the entrepreneurial team that is striving for this years prize of thousands in support operations. Meanwhile, Viv has put up a web page for me. The page allows you to make an appointment or ask a question to be answered by mail, on skype or in my office. I do a weekly video of readings and other topics. Visit me: http://www.bricksite.com/shariananda. Last week the Danish magazine Ud & Se did an article on the Red cross Cycle program and featured me prominently. This is a boone. So, we have our ducks lined up.

Now we are about to launch an offer to the whole of the area for either a three card reading, a 1 question ask or a touch reading for only 349dk. We expect to be busy in July until the end of the year–with a small psychic fair in August and another in October, the work and the livelihood is building brick by brick. This we have had to be patient for, taking one step after the other, not sure how it would unfold, but it is unfolding. May your dreams and plans follow the moment by moment, step by step realization of your purpose and needs also.
Here’s your Daily Word:

Patience
With energy and strength, I wait.
Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Patience is an act of confidence that all is unfolding as it should—even when the process takes longer than I had hoped or expected.

Patience is not laziness or indifference. I don’t have to push or force a result in order to feel as if I am making progress. But just as a farmer cannot hurry or worry a harvest into existence, I cannot rush results that must unfold in their own time.

True patience is a silent energy, one that restores and strengthens. I deny power to any feelings of doubt or impatience, and while I wait, I pray. I stay focused on the present moment, comforted by a quiet faith, and patiently expecting the greater good to come.
May you be made strong … and may you be prepared to endure everything with patience.—Colossians 1:11

Light and Dark

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When I woke thismorning, the room was so full of bright,white, morning light that I had to squint to face the day. It was a reminder of the lightning strike blindness I experienced in 2006. Fact is I had a morning dream about that amazing day today before waking. I was so frightened that I had a mild heart attack, but back then as I fell to the bed in terror, a disembodied voice, a protector of some kind, perhaps, my Guardian Angel said to me, “Lie still.” I did and I survived the rapid fire zigzag of my startled heart. It isn’t as if I haven’t been protected by the light in other instances, but it has never been as startling to recognize I am never alone and guarded by the light as I did that day. I praise God and I love the light. Here’s the Daily Word:

Light
I live in the light of God.
Sunday, June 22, 2014

The sunlight that awakens me on a summer morning is bright and encouraging. Its radiance beckons me into a day of abundant possibilities.

The indwelling light of God is constant. It leads me on a path to my highest good, providing direction when I am unsure what to do. To find this inner light, I center my heart and mind on the love of God; my path becomes clear. God is my light, my strength, and my hope.

I trust the light of God within to awaken me to my full potential. With divine light shining in me, I am strong and confident.

I live in the light of God. Each day is like a bright summer day in which all things are possible.

Indeed, you are my lamp, O Lord, the Lord lightens my darkness.—2 Samuel 22:29

The Surprising Advent of World Peace–Connect the Dots–Preamble to DW

The Surprising Advent of World Peace–connect the dots — [Follow my weekly video topic at my website:www.bricksite.com/shariananda]

1.The Pope holding prayer and peace talks at the Vatican. Amazing!

2.The President of the USA defending our right to restraint against expected military intervention in Iran, Iraq, Ukraine, Syria, Egypt…

3. The world’s outcry against the kidnaping of the Nigerian girls

4. The all-nation joint effort to find Flight MH300—unity, cooperation, shared concern

5. The talk between Iran’s President and Ours about uniting to beat back the Isis rebels

6. The snactions against, of all nations, Russia for invading Ukraine!

7. The work by glamorous Angelina Jolie to stop sex slavery and crimes

8. The work by Prince William and David beckham–what bed fellows–against illegal poaching in the habits of endagered and targeted animals.

9. The rising up of the peoples of the world to protest corrupt and oppressive governments: of all places, China! Egypt, Thailand, Syria, Nigeria, Iran, Ukraine

10. The whistle-blowers revelation of distrust between supposed friendly nations–spying–

11. Same gender marriages that reduce internal angst and civic unrest over equal rights.

12. Looking for the good in the bad news–connect the dots Here’s the Daily Word:

World Peace I set an example for peace in the world.Tuesday, June 17, 2014 World peace is born from peace in our hearts and in our households. I foster peace within me by maintaining my spiritual practice. I observe my thoughts, feelings, and words and commit to my personal growth and healing. If I do not feel at peace, I seek to understand my true needs and fulfill them in a conscious and compassionate way, which nurtures peace of mind. I work to resolve any conflict with others through respectful and honest communication. I speak my needs and listen with my heart. I welcome opportunities to understand any differences. Peace begins with me. The example I set and the energy I radiate cultivate peace on earth. Whatever house you enter, first say, “Peace to this house!”–Luke 10:5

TODAY”:… in the house of the Lord all the days of my life”–preamble to the DW:”Now”

TODAY”:… in the house of the Lord all the days of my life”

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‘Today while the blossoms still cling to the vine
I’ll taste your strawberries, I’ll drink your sweet wine
A million tomorrows shall all pass away, err I forget all the joys that are mine today I’ll be a dandy or I’ll be a rover, you know who I am by the song that I sing
I’ll feast at your table, I’ll bring something over,
who knows what tomorrow will bring….

This is a song I used to sing by the campfire when I was a summer camp counselor at Robin Hood Camp in Central Valley NY back in 1967,68 and 70. It was a time of my life, one of my earlierst jobs and one of my most fulfilling uses of my energy and time. It was my job to oversee and guide a group of 8 girls and plan with them daily activities outside of the programmed swimming, crafts, and camp fires. I was a nature counselor; so, I enjoyed walking the girls about, showing them the wonders of various trees and their leaves, various insects, snakes, and turtles, which we caught plenty of in “froggy pond.” We caught a good slew of frogs too. But we always let them go. I enjoyed being outdoors, being with all things present.

Yesterday, Vivi came back from the garden with a box of newly grown and freshly picked strawberries from a neighboring garden lady. They were so many and so juicy and sweet, not acidic or bitter. I usually can’t eat strawberries without an acidic eruption of psoriasis. But these were from heaven, the earth of Denmark. Sometimes it is so good to me here, that I do not believe I am real or here is real. But today, today, I feel made a part of it all, and the feeling calls that song to mind that I quoted above. Yes, I remember my past and treasure the good, bringing those memories to this moment for I could not recognize it’s naturally interwoven consequence today without that yesteday. Good follows good–all the days of my life. Here’s the Daily Word:
Now
I live in the present moment.
Monday, June 16, 2014

Life takes on new meaning as I understand the power of the present moment, which is God’s eternal now.

All that has gone before has brought me to this moment. I realize the futility of past regrets and let them go. To live fully in the present, I must also realize that the future is only a concept and its mysteries cannot be known. My readiness for what lies ahead depends on what I make of today’s opportunities.

I put my energy and focus on making the most of what is before me right now. The present brings me new opportunities to serve, love, forgive, understand, and grow. I am inspired to think in new ways and step out in new directions.
This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.—Psalm 118:24

My Relatives–Preamble to the Daily Word “Discovery”

My Relatives

I am far away from home. I have two brothers:one in Africa, the other in Illinois. I love them very much. They both have wives and children. Iam very fond of their wives and children, but I have been on the move so much that I am like a comet that circles their lives every now and then. I’m not very there for them, but this does not prevent me from feeling close and connected to them.

There are my sisters in law Binta and Dorothy. My nieces and nephews Mitchell, Deidra, Melvin, Siketta, Marsha, and Akasha, Saskia,Sonia,Lawrence, Lawrence and Lawrence, plus Akasha’s new baby boy. (Blessed be!) Also, I have one aunt left of the many brothers and sisters of my parents. She is 97 this year. My extraordinary role model! Still community minded and politically astute–a satirist even!
I have some ancestral second and first cousins, among them my cousin Margie in Ohio, her sisters Jean and Betty and their families. My cousin Willie “Mac”and Deborah Dawson,both avid family histornians and archivists;I have my first cousins Judy (aka Jewel), Susie (aka Jackie)Lionel, Diane, David and wife, and Mike –all in Chicago, and my cousin twice removed TC Bibb in Alabama. Any other relatives I’ve long since fallen out of touch with, and do not carry them around missing in my heart, but I pray for them as I do all of humanity. I am thankful that I have a tribe.
I am grateful to have their blessing or indifference to my exploits and adventures. I am glad to be here and all is well with them–so I can leap forward witht their acceptance and wonder. Thank you, God. I envision their lives a whole and fulfilled. Here’s your Daily Word–
Discovery
God’s world awaits my discovery.
Thursday, June 12, 2014

As the school year comes to a close, students are filled with a sense of anticipation. I, too, am excited about what is to come in my own life. What new experiences await me? What can I discover about myself and the world?

I take a moment to become consciously aware of my surroundings, even that which may seem insignificant. As I notice a squirrel scurrying about, a couple holding hands, or the laughter of friends at an afternoon picnic, I note how God shows up in the everyday activities of life.

God’s world awaits my discovery! I seize every opportunity to notice and appreciate it. I am constantly learning and growing. I am filled with exuberance for life.

When you search for me, you will find me; if you seek me with all your heart.—Jeremiah 29:13

Accepting One’s Freedom –2 pieces and the Daily Word preamble

Accepting One’s Freedom (Mine,Hers,God’s)

Since I have been here in Denmark, I have had time to review lots of parts of my life. My self-defintions, my ex-relationships, my choices and unmade choices. I have thought about racism and being childless. I have thought about what it means to live under another flag other than that of the USA’s Old Glory. I have taken up with new British and German authors. I have slowed down to a crawl, trying to find my new calling and set up shop. I have married and discovered how different I am in this legal state that I was when I was married in a Holy Union–same devotion, maturer person. I find myself thinking about how I handled things in the past and about how I am balancing my presentation in the world with smiles and wonder, yet a sense fo isolation now that my old friends are far away, and new friends of my age and measure are more difficult to nurture. My rhythms, my exposure to new music and new movies in other languages exceeds my expectations. I have just taken it all on and stripped away the shield that once did not admit my capacity for embarrasment or self-exposure. I do not know what new challenges I will meet daily, but I find I must keep affirming my transformation and changes are here and now, and I must fight against old rising grudge thoughts or memories of times that hurt unlike now. But most of all I have try not to be afraid of who I am becoming and have cdompassion on who I was. This is a little convoluted, but my point is freedom to be reborn does not come cheaply or without a tussle. Prayer, meditation, and my bewloved’s love and encouragement aid me. Thank you God, help me in my weakness. Here’s a reading that I gave recently on All Expert.com

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Questioner: J
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Subject: Ex–as king of your heart–I don’t think so
Question: I saw my ex yesterday and he’s dating a new girl. The last time I saw he was dating a different girl. We had a pretty bad break up but despite what happened between us, I still care for him. Sometimes I feel like there are signs that we may get back together but it may be all in my head. Like the other day our big boss approached me to congratulate bec. he thought I just got married to my ex. I don’t know why he would think that but he said, he saw my name somewhere and took the last name of my ex. So it’s kinda weird for me. Will we ever get back together? His name is HCz born on dec 17,1978 and my name is VJB born on april 18,1981. Hope you can help me out, I still miss him and hoping we still have a chance. God bless and more power!

Answer: Dear, dear J–
It’s perfectly okay to still love someone after breaking up with them. You are not guilty. You are human. But I wonder if you have thought about what issues there were for you two and if you will encounter them again ? and if so, have you new skills or insight as to how you will deal with them?

You make a couple of big assumptions. One that he has been dating others unsuccessfully and maybe what you had was therefore better or he has been unable to find something he had in you. And you think or wish him to come back. You are fanticizing about the possibility of a reunion and you are adding projection to it, by thinking there are “signs” that you and he might be turning toward each other again, especially since the boss asked about you two as a married couple. I understand. I have been there. It’s a painful place to be.

It’s hard to want someone and not know if they want you or think about you as you think about them. But you are in your thirties now, and it’s not the same game of “try and fly” as it was when you were a teen. It is not “shop and drop” as in the twenties. In the 30s it’s more “get real and deal with what you feel.” Because time is wasting. In seven years, you’ll be 40, do you want to spend the time hoping for a love that was problematic and which has had it’s season and taught you what you needed to learn? or do you want to really think about what you need and what you are dreaming of having with someone?

The “dark night of the soul” is an expression that is meant to talk about the agonies of break-up or grief. It’s when you suffer from heart-break and doubts about what you could have done or should have done or could have done. It’s all that backwards looking to understand what you did wrong or why it was this way or that. But life happens as it does and we are meant to move with the Spirit, to let go when it hurts too much to stay.

I invite you now, based on three cards I pulled for you after prayer, to think about what you want and need from life. What kind of person are you? What are your interests and passions? What is your purpose? These would be the things to ask of yourself during this dark night of the soul that sends you reeling backwards in you rmind and heart. I am told that the devil makes us look back–to the past–so we can’t see what God has for us up ahead. The “Hermit” card was your past–it says you have been looking back too much. It’s time to regroup, ask of yourself those questions above.

The “Fool” (present)card is a lover’s card which usually says “go for it,” take the leap, follow your heart. But in this case, yours was upside down. It means you’ll just fall into the same trap and fail to grow or even learn from your mistakes (and his). You two are growing in different ways at different rates. So, no, I do not think you are due for another round.
However, you have free will and you can pursue him–ask him to come back–if he continues to be your obsession. You are allowed. As I said above, you’re human.

Your final card (future), was the King of cups, it shows a man isolated on a rock in an ocean trying to invite many fish to come to him. He is a king but he has no land, no command, only the hard place of his ideas about love and being close. He is drunk or high on his own fantasy of what he thinks he wants and deserves. This card is also upside down. His world is just that way. He is older but not as mature as you. Acts like a teen, or a 20 something. It was noticeable that you did not tell me what he felt about you and how you two broke up.

You are willing to overlook his failings, thinking his love is sufficient, but his love is immature and selfish, and he can only express himself sexually and in brags. He is simply a shadow of a fully mature man. So, no, I do not see you getting back permanently–maybe as warm friends. You still have a true attraction,but I see you as his spiritual role model. You always were his best adviser, and the feelings you have are unconditional love, but no amount of aceptance should reduce you to betraying yourself. You are due to have better, if you look forward,not back. Think on this a few days. I wish you health and wholeness, peace and insight. Shariananda,oracle

DAILY WORD
When a butterfly leaves its chrysalis, it abandons its former way of life. The transition takes time as the newly formed butterfly waits for its wings to dry. Once ready, it takes flight, leaving old ways behind as it soars freely.

Like the butterfly, I may find that my freedom from a former way of life takes time. I cocoon myself in prayer and meditation. I consciously let go of old thoughts, ideas, and habits that keep me from the full expression of who I am.

I let go of the past and live in the present. I am no longer held back by fear of failure or defeat. Through the power and presence of God within, I am free to soar through the garden of life.
For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters.—Galatians 5:13